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This was putting me in a vicious circle, and as a result of that fear I was ignoring my expectations to keep them in the relationship. It also made to feel out of control. There were many moments that I blamed myself for every problem. I was believing I am not lovable or did not deserve to be loved someone. It was so painful, I believed the only way to find relief or cope with those feelings was being the victim. Kübra showed me and made me believe that I have control over myself and that is what I need to have a better life . She helped me to transform my dysfunctional beliefs or perceptions.  Now, I am not playing the victim and not blaming myself for others fault. I know how lovable I am. My most intense feeling or sensation during our sessions was like coming out from under the rubble from the emotional burdens that I was made to believe belonged to me in the past. The more I let go, I loved and myself and became aware of my strength. When I wanted something, I was waiting for my spousebto realize it and do it, or I was trying to get it done with a fight, and when hebdidn’t, I would get offended and step aside. Our communication was severely broken at that time, too. I learned the healthy way to express my wishes and expectations with Kübra. It realized that it is normal to demand first. I did not only become aware of things but also I am able to act accordingly and have the courage to do so. that. Certainly my marriage was the most profound turning point of my life. I was about to ruin this relationship as well due to not having self-respect and self-love. But thankfully, now I can receive and give love. I can appreciate the things that my partner do and believe his love. I succeeded in all of these and more with Kübra. I’m glad our paths crossed, I’m glad you touched me.

And it did. I never been to any therapist at all. But always wanted to try hypnotherapist, because I like to read the books and talk to people. But to use that knowledge to apply in my every day life was not easy. I often forget that I need to change the way I interact with things. And at the end the habits or my problems never get solved. I was amazed because my first session, is kinda heavy but the day after I can implementing the new habit right away. It’s like automatic. Then I am hooked lol I never realized all this time in my life I carried different baggages over my shoulder.  From how I can explain this is like along the way each session I’m talking to her I am losing one bag at a time and I can walk faster I feel lighter. Don’t get me wrong you will not see the change in every session. Because it’s so hard to measure. But I pay attention and I realizes that when I am down or depressed used to be up to a week to get rid of that clouds of sadness, but now I only have that cloud not till the next morning, except when I have a broken heart. I always have problems with my insecurity, it doesn’t matter how great I do things I never satisfied myself. And If I make mistakes I will be mean to myself way before others can be mean to me. I can forgive people around me but it’s just so difficult to forgive myself, and run after the relationships or people that will never care about me. In these sessions I got a chance(chances) to go back in time when I was some certain age that incident had occurred, but this time when I go back I got a chance to sit down and try to observe and understand from the point of view of a grown-up. The experience itself is amazing, I realize that I can be a different person at a different age. And if each version of myself come to be together in one place then I already have a group of people who will be supporting me for the rest of my life. I am seriously refer her to everybody I know. I am so grateful to be able to get the chance of learning about myself. And be a better version every day. Thanks Kubra :))